Love Psychology

Every time passing through the 5^th girl dorm(女五舍), I always have to wear the sunglasses lest my eyes be blind.

WHY ARE SO MANY COUPLES FLIRTING HERE?????????

Seeing these lovers hug sweetly, singles feel more and more cold and lonely with the coming of winter…..

For many centuries, singles scientists have been curious that why people who love each other and become lovers successfully? To find out the answer, some scientist tried to observe the interaction between couples and do a series of experiments.

Given that couples like to spend a good night together, Kenneth Gergen planned an experiment according to this fact. He let 4 men and 4 women stay in one chamber for an hour. There were only 30% subjects perceive the sex desire. Next, he turned off the light. He traced their actions with infrared ray camera. He found out that nearly 90% subjects touched others on purpose, 50% of them hugged each other, and 80% of them felt a desire of sex…. (What the….)

Aside from the experiment above, Daniel Wegner designed another test. He invited volunteers to play the cards. Each group had 2 men and 2 women. One man and one woman formed a team to versus their enemy. In the board, Wegner ordered a team to cheat by kicking the legs of each other (a kind of flirting between lovers) to signal to their team members. The study showed that those kicking each other found their team members much more charming.

Wish everyone can find their Mr. and Ms. Right before this Christmas by kicking the loving one at night. (?)

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Sources: (Book) "Rip It Up, The Simple Idea That Changes Everything"